She will try to convert you. You may look on here and see all of us, but a lot of us got out much much older. The goal of dating at that age is to broaden your social circle and learn more about yourself. That conversation prompted me to find and read through this sub, and there's some seriously disturbing shit here. Even after that, the Church discourages youth from entering serious relationships before they are considering marriage. There are many great and wonderful people in the church, and the real evil about the church is that it harms those great and wonderful people. It would behoove you in this situation to act like a kid yourself.
It gives people a sense of purpose, while pressuring them to be 'good' by their book. I feel you on the loneliness. When I hear some of the issues going on in Mormon Land, I usually say to myselfв. But it also means he has ultimate responsibility for his patients, both ethically and legally. I wish you the best of luck. I am just short of living in a shelter because he has all of his pay going into a separate account for just him now and he has given access tot he account to his mistress. How does one go about trying to develop a relationship with someone whose schedule is so unpredictable and whose free time is so sparse. Take issues as they arise, rather than throwing away what could be a good experience for you and her based off of what might happen. Plan on knowing their religion better than they do at all times.
And of course we have been taughtвby Brigham Young, at leastвthat even when Christ comes during the Millenium there will be those who will not accept him as their Savior even if they accept him as the leader of the world. That isn't fair on you, and again will create stress and a stress point in the relationship. There is no moral issue here. It's easy to be blind to deal-breaking faults when you are young and in love. Please don't add to that grandious ego. Within a cultural group marriage is hard. Like Suha, I have also been married almost 28 years and have done pretty much everything myself for so, so long.
I know how much it hurts, and it makes you feel unwanted. We are trying to conceive now, and I am contemplating if this was the right path for me. Then the girl decided still not to date him after all.
