If I were you, I would just nope out of it and move on. I can no longer spend more than 30 minutes in the sun. I have this brain trapped after all these years. Do you see yourself being with him for many years. While a part of me is sad about not having a temple marriage and getting sealed together I have hope that this could change while we are on this earth and I have faith in an ever-loving Father in Heaven who is kind and just and will be able to provide a way for my family to live together in the eternities. He probably hates even the memory of me for getting him in that stupid church. She will try to convert you. And of course, when it happens, no one the leaver or the faithful spouse could have predicted it. If we do get married I may have to foot more of the bills. Please see above link for full rules.
No doubt that some will be valiant up on the other side of the veil, but just as sure there will others who will reject salvation because of their high mindedness. There are other occasions for humor, but these two are off the table. I am 27, LDS, and 5 days away from marrying my own amazing non-Mormon man. Among Mormons, 25 is practically an old maid. There's a picture of the magic rock he found while digging a neighbor's well. We always went every Sunday, had family prayer and scripture reading, etc. The Mormon girl has the light of Christ shining through her, and you were drawn in. That's the real issue.
Like, she thought that serving would remedy her of any doubts or testimony issues. I have always been a very active, outdoor person. There is no way she will may you without you going to the temple. Essential reference tools, including a drug-interaction checker, medical calculators, and a pill identifier.
I would do it all over again and thank my lucky stars that I found this man, that he loves, and that I love him. As an atheist with Buddhist undertones who married a non-practicing, god-believing Mormon at the height of his questioning, I find this so interesting to me. Of course, your parents will care most. I am the same good faithful woman I always was, just on a different path than I ever expected, one full of insights and blessings I never knew could exist. It works, though, because I know that his beliefs have great worth. Get her to explain what she believes, and how it might differ from her church.