Trying anal for the first time can be massively nerve-wracking, no matter how much you want to try it. I had been having sex for over 10 years and experimented a lot before I tried it and, as a 'try anything once' kind of woman, I wanted to give it a go. If you take your time, communicate and pay attention, it can actually be great. In my experience, I was freaked out for nothing. Call me naive, but I assumed that anal meant they would be behind you — like doggy or spooning. But be aware missionary can feel more intense, so doggy or spooning may be better beginner positions. Switch it up and do whatever makes you feel comfortable and in control.
1. You can do it in missionary
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This is the fifth in a multi-part series from After Hours about anal play. You can see the other posts in the series as they come out here. Anal sex is pretty polarizing. No one is going to force you to try anal, but there are a few compelling reasons to give it a go:. Just like with any other type of sex, you have to take precautions to keep yourself safe during anal.
How do you have anal sex for the first time? All about anal sex What is anal sex? Safe anal sex. Anyone else got more tips? I will get in touch with him and get back to you on this one! So my friend said pretty much all the typical things like you mentioned before tea. I think the first and most important part is to learn about your bum and your body.