If you want him - he is part of a medical school package right now, and likely will be for some time to come. The dots are extremely close for every LDS person, its just extremely hard to connect them. You have to come second right now. She has to decide for herself what she believes, but you can definitely help expose her to new ideas. His specality is emergency medicine so I know that is extreamley competitive. I know from my own experience that God has the answers and that He speaks to those individuals who humbly seek Him.
Moved homes 5 times in that time. But what I discovered surprised me. So that may be the end of it there.
Over the years, it would have felt increasingly burdensome to accommodate practices that seemed to me like superstition. Your girlfriend might, or maybe IS, going through this. And after years of this struggle, will your love for him and desire to avoid the hassle cause you to reduce your activation. I knew a Mormon girl who got rides from her Mormon friends for casual sex dates with men she met on Tinder. But God works in mysterious ways.
I have a friend who identifies as bi-gendered and often feels most comfortable in femme. She will insist on raising her children in the Mormon church. I'd suggest the essays. I know you got a zillion replies, and I have not read them. You are too young to deal with this. And of course we have been taughtвby Brigham Young, at leastвthat even when Christ comes during the Millenium there will be those who will not accept him as their Savior even if they accept him as the leader of the world.