As soon as she becomes dissatisfied, she will turn face and educate the OP about just how wrong it would be for her to stay with him. As an atheist with Buddhist undertones who married a non-practicing, god-believing Mormon at the height of his questioning, I find this so interesting to me. He took out his bad moods on everyone. He was the best decision I have ever made in my life, hands down. It may change your relationship to them forever. The LDS Church meets many of the criteria for cult behavior. I hope to be able to love nurses as I once did for many years. Yes, anyone crazy enough to believe the story of gold plates should be able to rationalize a brown rock. We strive to improve each other.
I get looking ahead, but it seems like you are very unhappy with the way things are now. IE в the comment about not having a husband to give priesthood blessings, etc. It's in the Mormon DNA. The church can be a very cruel place for single people.
She converts to your religion. I hope he wised up. Trust yourself, trust God and enjoy the beautiful relationship that you have. But now, in addition to being a primary spouse, I'm also the primary parent. Plan on her family trying to torpedo your relationship if you don't convert.
I make significantly more money than he does as a resident, but I know that my job is secondary. First of all, Mormons are people so there is a spectrum of what they actually believe on a personal level, and what beliefs are most important to them. Post was not sent - check your email addresses. He probably hates even the memory of me for getting him in that stupid church. What upsets me most is that he didn't realize it was my birthday, or a big one and then that his reaction was to get defensive about his plans rather than offer an alternative for celebrating with me. I have observed in relationships among friends and family inside and outside of the church that holding a temple recommend does not guarantee a strong, happy marriage. How church discipline works. I appreciate your honest, and I really like the way you phrased things, particularly this sentence: Thank you for your comments. Mixed races, however, are NOT tied into opposing beliefs and mixed races don't try to "convert" each other.