And her husband now is dead and she is left to wonder about their future. Marriage to the wrong person is extremely difficult. It was more about my own spirituality and our relationship in our marriage. Hi Op, I wouldn't worry about the lack of constant contact too much. Otherwise you're just denying them eternal salvation in their eyes. I am not a doctor's wife so I won't say I understand, but I will give you a virtual hug. A lot of people will tell you to run but if she is in her late 20s most Mormon guys her age are married. I have been pretty much a single mother most of that time.
So, we decide to take a "break" because there was so much tension and resentment in the relationship. I am not one to be interest with his paycheck, since i am accountant myself. If so that's a good sign. She got engaged 3 months later. If she was anything like me, that idea is probably foreign, radical, confusing, interesting, and inspiring to her. Not one little bit. Maybe watch "Going Clear" with her. Her Religion is more important than you will ever be Her Religion comes first and deep down, she will come to hate you for not accepting joining her religion. You will be expected to condone but not attend events in the temple to which you will not be granted access.
Some days there is so much pain that I can barely type. There's a ton of crazy in what we were taught all our lives. His energy is used on patients and luckily his son. I am literally too lazy to get up and get the computer. If he has to work late call a girlfriend or paint a picture. My plan was to start school as soon as I got married but when he was told he would be going to another hospital, my masters got put on hold. Finding a person with whom your wavelength matches, and around whom you feel you can just be yourself, talk about anything, and not be worried about being judged, is not as easy as the romantic movies and TV soaps make it out to be.
Some Mormons believe the Telestial Kingdom will be littered with spouses who refused to get baptized. That of course does not mean all eternal marriages should have been entered into or will succeed. When I expressed how upset and sad I was he told me simply that he works hard and that is how he wants to spend his money and what he plans to do. She is now happy with her uber-Mormon boyfriend and I am happily dating other people as well. I've done the pre-med, med school, residency, etc. Then we can at least cuddle and go to bed together. But those days may be gone. I tried telling him that I know myself enough that I would not be happy in this kind of relationship. I'm pointing this out because I don't know her and couldn't tell you what to expect.