While dating is a good time to get to know someone, if you are young it is better to go on group dates. Mormonism is fundamental to my religious beliefs and my personal sense of identity, and it is the community that I identify with most strongly. Then she took a vacation to Utah and in her letter to me she stated that she had seen the Temple, and I never heard from her again. Most of us were suckled on that teat too. My experience has been that personal similarities and differences are a bigger element than cultural differences. Mormon girls are the best, and you are pretty lucky. No one, except someone who has been Mormon can understand how deep the hooks are sunk into the Mormon psyche. And yet I have such profound respect for his role in our community.
BUT it could easily have gone the other way. The important thing is doing it together. You'll know pretty quick where she stands. No one could compare to the man I married. If you marry her, you're marrying into a cult, a mild cult as far as cults go, but a cult nonetheless. He has always kept her at the side, devoting almost equal time to me and her. Never mind the paycheck because I even earn more than him. After 15 years of marriage, I'm so used to living a separate life with our 3 kids. Not one little bit.
My boyfriend is in his second year of residency, and I'm still adjusting to this new situation. Dating does not necessarily mean an exclusive relationship. No drama-inducing crossposting of content found in other subreddits, or vice versa. Listen to the still small voiceв. It's not fair to put words in her mouth and thoughts in her brain like this.
Oh, and remember LDS girls are usually good at leading guys on with potential sex to get guys to agree to what they want join the church. When I acquired a personal testimony of the gospel as a teen, and made my own decisions regarding my faith, I felt very alone. In the long run, being married to a nonmember has made me a better person. She is passionate about it. There was a decrease in pay but an increase in our quality of life already. I think that if these two really care about each other that she should be told to take a moment and ask herself how she would feel if they break up over this and years later she finally researches her religion. Then the girl decided still not to date him after all. She likely hasn't had many long-term relationships and has no idea what dynamics are involved in one. For the official Church websites, please visit LDS.