I also definitely don't want her raising my future children, though, and I'll be very clear about that. I feel as if my husband and I just live passed eachother. Being a doctor's wife is difficult, demanding, and lonely. By all means, I encourage you to try having those discussions and to make a mental note of when you would choose to walk away instead.
Money is not everything although the ex certainly has her share. And unless they are total cretins your ward members will love him too. Can you live your whole life with a husband you doesnt or never will believe in the mormon church. The important things that keep our marriage a happy, healthy, and very loving one are the same things that keep any other marriage alive and well. My two daughters have each chosen a man who is emotionally and physically available, thank goodness. They want a man who has navigated the stormy seas of the world, who has just a little bit of history, and has overcome the degenerate worldly culture, a man who has discovered for himself where peace and happiness lie.
Doctors are gift of God but when u marry, family too is important. He does not place the marriage above it. My advice would be to become as familiar as possible with her schedule, and then plan activities that will allow you both to get to know each other better, avoid movies. My experience has been that personal similarities and differences are a bigger element than cultural differences. Cookies make wikiHow better. Just know what your getting into. Whatever your leaders have said, consider their counsel, give it the weight it deserves, then counsel with your Heavenly Father about your own situation. I used to be religious when I was a kid.
Avoid the topic when you can, it's not something that'll be pretty unless handled in a calm discussion which Well, people as a whole tend to be pretty immature with big topics. There are so many names in both English and Chinese. I have a friend who identifies as bi-gendered and often feels most comfortable in femme. Second, in my experience mormons have been some of the kindest people I've ever had the privilege to know, and they have not lived up to the cult image you describe. Though I am yet to see if we would make it. We met on the day he was accepted into medical school, lived together for his rotations during 3rd and 4th years and were all set to move together for residency. There is NO guarantee that marrying a returned missionary RM in the temple equates with love and happiness.