That is the million dollar question. This is not about either of you individually. You will join the church. It sounds like she's already considered marrying you and raising children in the church even with you being out of the church. Harmony will prevail if the husband appreciates the value of church service and attendance. If you end up marrying a true believing Mormon, your marriage will be a threesome. It would be ludicrous to think otherwise. Getting a Date In other languages: Thanks to all authors for creating a page that has been read 85, times. The Church encourages you to use dating as an opportunity to show your respect not just for others, but for yourself. And if he meets it's after calling him for the several time.
But when my oldest daughter hit 12, the lessons started to have one major theme: This is what girls are told should be their primary goal. The fact she's dating you while you aren't a Mormon is at least a sign of hope. This is something that's very important to her, and it's difficult to be married to someone who doesn't share the same values. Life is a journey and going through it with a true partner, and a mutual respect for curiosity, is so far greatly rewarding. Know that you are playing a game aka dating mormon girls that has low odds of success. YOu ladies out there My soon to be fiance is a doctor, he'll be ending his internship in and maybe will do his postgraduate abroad. My experience with non members has been so much more meaningful and caring. BYU was once the perfect place to find a great young woman and get married. If he is luck to be off call during the weekend, I would sleep most of the weekends away to make up the sleep deprivation. I just pray daily that no matter what we end up doing we are 30 min or less away from each other.
But it is luck of the draw. Mormon chicks have way damaged views on human intimacy. No one should feel excluded from the House of the Lord.
I mean lots of his friends from residency have girlfriends or wives and make it work. If you talk to him about it, and he cares about your relationship enough, the two of you will probably be able to find something that works for both of you. You don't have to believe them yourself, but you need that respect in thought as well as action, and you need to frame this as your own journey because you can only change yourself. Honestly I'd let things keep going. The views expressed herein do not necessarily represent the position of the Church. When she goes on a mission, she will go through the temple which means she will be wearing garments.