There's a reason so many Utahns are on anti depressants and anti anxiety meds. That thing literally never shuts up. I was not in any way dissing her personally, nor dissing her at all, really Many people here have told the guy to run; I just went into more detail. All these post confirming how doctors cheat all the time on their spouse kills me and my hope in a future with him. A shitty sex life, potentially.
When my wife and I married, we were very different, but I found all the differences delightful. The sons inevitably went inactive later in life. And I resent being viewed as just the wife of a doctor rather than my own person with her own accomplishments and aspirations. The Mormon girl has the light of Christ shining through her, and you were drawn in. Why Mormons are not sexist. They could fill a book, the stories I could tell. Today was his day off and not one word from him. Hi Ladies- My man is an emergency room physician in his mid 50's. On top of their day job, they also have to read volumes upon volumes of medical journals to keep up with their profession.
If you are a believer and are willing to go, then well and good. Secondly, if he's still in residency, he has to prevail and give it his all. I wanted that full support though I am certainly not saying that marrying a Mormon ensures that. Thanks for sharing your experiences. If she is still Mormon and you are not, she will always secretly hope that you convert, just like you will always secretly hope she leaves the church. Follow the footnotes and you start to find the lies. He did call frequently, so I don't think its a good sign that your doctor guy isn't calling. So basically we were lies to for years.
Not all of us are able to achieve that ideal but we are to strive for it. They are always dressed in decent clothing, and the same is expected of their date. If she is motivated enough to want to go on a mission, she will likely not settle for having a second class "eternal companion" you who is a convert or one who cannot be sealed to her for eternity.