I am not quite a spouse of a doctor. The day could come where she has to decide between her relationship with you and her church. Some Mormons believe the Telestial Kingdom will be littered with spouses who refused to get baptized. I would love to someday find myself sitting in the pew with you, sharing this amazing journey. God knows the big picture. Make sure everyone involved is a couple, or at least is paired with someone. So I feel like we have to wait yet another year just for the daunting part of it to start. She probably doesn't even realize how crazy that is. And here's an excellent video on the importance of religious freedom.
Go on your different ways as friends and don't expect your relationship to go anywhere. I didn't expect to fall in love with him I am Australian by birth and have lived here for 20 odd years so have no family here other than my 17 year old son and the many wonderful friends I call family I am very extroverted, work full time and have a side business and can keep myself busy every day I would rather know now it will not work Does anyone find they are a bit unemotional. We were planning on doing it on memorial day weekend so we could get married on a sunday between graduation and residency but that is a Jewish holiday. A good doctor must be willing to sacrifice his own needs for the good of his patient and as his wife, you sacrifice as well. Love the man you are going to marry- warts and all he loves yours as well. Do some research of your own as well, so that you know a little more about the person you are dating. I feel like I make a lot of sacrifices to see him and try to make it as convenient as possible for him, which means planning ahead and changing my schedule around sometimes. It really has been helpful.
Sometimes I seat and think how we can make this work when both of us have career aspirations I am trying to find a tenure-track position close to my husband this year, and I just keep my fingers crossed that I can do that. Why Mormons don't drink wine or coffee. With that same attitude they will rise up on the other side of the veil. I am so happy about 'starting' our life together in a few months, but I feel like I am totally setting myself up for disappointment. Marrying a non-Mormon is not something you do it is something that happens. No one should feel excluded from the House of the Lord. The most important thing is an open dialogue, as you say, and utmost respect for the other person.
And the fact that he didn't respond for two days was confirmation for myself that I did the right thing. I think people get carried away with the whole social status of a Doctor which is really unnecessary. I met my wife at the age of She literally showed up at my apartment one night, wholly unexpected.