I have suggested a date night just for us but, he doesn't want a scheduled night for dates. There are such things as perfect loving families though. What would your relationship look like if you were to marry. Oh well, I'll just pretend she's not mormon and see what happens. All this said, God is love and fully understands and appreciates your problem. If it were me, I would be flattered they had that much time to spend on me.
I just started talking to a doctor he is older and has already finished with all of those steps but already im getting a taste of what its going to be like. Too many disappointments, sick nights without your husbands, his absence during family gatherings, my usual OBGYN checkup without him, even simple things of hugging and spending quality time is always remote. He is controlled by his pediatric physician wife, trying to help others with their illness, and still is with me. It MAY be true that she will be miserable with him and make him miserable with her. Every school events, social gathering, especially weekend calls is making me sad. Read our FAQ s. If you go yourself, you'll see - those people are good people. I get that a lot to people saying 'be happy you married a doctor' 'u will have a glamorous wonderful life' they would not get it unless they be one-that is being a docs wife, the loneliness is the worst especially when your newly wedded and 2nd month of ur marriage he has to go for his night calls in dec, which includes our first christmas: I thought I was the only one who barely gets communication throughout the day, not married but am dating a surgeon and have for 6 years. It is also considered disrespectful to others, as they may be uncomfortable because of your open displays. At first it didn't bother me, but after a while I started feeling more like a booty call and less like a SO.
The church is very important to her. The scenario where she refused to watch a possibly 'anti' documentary and wanted to watch church-sanctioned material sounds like a red flag. Pickings are slim at church. The gold is in the footnotes and sources linked from those new essays. This is how I felt when I married my exmo husband. In the endвthe very endвGod loves my husband even more than I love him.
I do nearly all of the parenting fortunately we only have one child -- we both agree that this lifestyle is too demanding for more and find that my husband's crazy hours and the energy drain of the job make me yearn to connect with other wives that relate. Ask her on dates. For the first time in my life, at age twenty-seven, I am in a relationship that is good and loving and serious enough that I believe it may lead to marriage. But realistically, if she is not open minded enough to even listen to someone who has a contrasting view of the church - how will she not continually discount you and your lack of beliefs. She was expecting me to break up with her, like all previous guys she's been into have done. A forum for ex-mormons and others who have been affected by mormonism to share news, commentary, and comedy about the Mormon church. I would need to ask my husband again.