Great payback for my support during residency and multiple moves. There are so many potential problems they would fill a book. And once you are done with those, ask about social issues and where she stands. I have been with him through medical school and residency for internal medicine, which was tough, but manageable. The point is that he should ASK her if this is true for her. Although it may indeed be a good idea to get out of this one, we all need to keep in mind that the situation is more complex than that. That's probably true, and that would be a great thing for her, but they wouldn't see it that way.
This one is different. It gets better towards the later part of the whole deal, but it's always going to be kind of crazy busy. But I got to my breaking point, and after not hearing from him AT ALL for seven days at this point we had been dating and sleeping together for months. My parents met when my mom was in 8th grade and married when she was I think my sister married fastest and knew her husband at least 18 months, dating for at least half that. I was born and raised in the LDS faith. She will not marry you until you convert to mormonism whole cloth.
I feel pretty awful about that whole thing. You will be surrounded by single women, many of whom are probably interested in dating and marrying a Mormon, so take advantage. I keep the positive thought that it will get better. Other lazy Mormon girls turn feminist, many thousands of them. I guess if u believe an angel with a sword really did force Joseph Smith to marry those girls. Of course he invited me to come with him, but he is in the wedding, so I'll be sitting there watching him in the wedding on my 30th birthday weekend. Then you complain when the polish of being married to a doctor wears off and you grow callused to the money and big house.
Thanks for the help. If you decide to marry this man, you both will find a way to be happy and have a wonderful marriage, not that perfect that we see in the Sundays at Church. My husband and I have been together since we were year-olds at university trying to figure out where we stood with the faiths we had grown up in. I excused canceling plans, seeing each other only once a week, not being able to text much, etc. I've been married to a doctor for 5 years now been together for 11 years and he is in his first year of Anaesthetics. Be open-minded; accept that different people have different beliefs, and that they do not always have to match with yours. You have to be willing to share him with his education process. Point is, I can push myself to my extreme physical ends and he has barely broken a sweat.