So it will just be for this life that it may be hard to have a non-believing spouse. Make sure she is Even after that, the Church discourages them from entering serious relationships before they are considering marriage. I then asked some questions about some of the essays, and her answer to everything is "because god. Plan on her family trying to torpedo your relationship if you don't convert.
If it's the latter then you may need to be more direct and take initiative. After a lot of thought during that relationship with a non-Mormon, I laid out exactly what struggles I was probably going to face: I was worried about my own faith. Those will make her think. This man basically tells you in a simple way within 6 minutes. Its great to hear advice from those who know. I bring him food I make sure he's happy. I do not see this going well.
He expects gourmet meals and an immaculate house. You are commenting using your WordPress. With his compartmentalized mind, if I walk away, he will close that door and move on. Well in my case and at this time, some of their words and advice are really hitting home and taking root because we are yet another casualty of the residency firing brigade. Count yourself lucky that your boyfriend is able to even consider going to parties with you even if you don't ultimately make it to them. What if she absolutely despises sex. Maybe he found a nice Mormon girl after all. Except his wife was and still is a witch. I suppose it depends on your personality.
Ask her on dates. Nobody has prepared her for one, definitely haven't prepared her for a healthy physical relationship. I mean, there was no way it could be worse than intern year. Back in the day, before I did the whole language thing, I worked in banking. We married in early 30's. In many ways, she was everything that I ever wanted in a spouse, but in other ways she was not what I ever expected. So I feel like we have to wait yet another year just for the daunting part of it to start. Please don't add to that grandious ego. He should tell her that he will never convert, and that if she will not be happy unless he does, the relationship should end.