He was devastatedcalled me every night crying telling me to please go back. Lack of motivation and endless loneliness that has caused me to be a lazy 15 pounds heavier woman. But daughter and I agreed that this teaching was unhealthy. He doesn't even think he works that much even though he sleeps 5 hours a night when he sleeps at all. When my wife and I married, we were very different, but I found all the differences delightful. Also, what do you and your fiancee do to deal with the busyness. Then we can at least cuddle and go to bed together. Seems some lonely trolls out there too based on above commentor.
And here's an excellent video on the importance of religious freedom. Mormons can be pretty crazy without it. God loves every last one of us, regardless of religious affiliation. Before I would just take things as they came, internalize them, be miserable about it but not voice my concern in fear of being told that I can't handle his lifestyle. I feel as if my husband and I just live passed eachother. I started dating "A" right after he graduated med school and as he started his residency.
If you have children how will they be raised. It all depends on the girl. Lots of really thorough replies. I realize my situation is less about marriage, and more about dating, but any advice would be greatly appreciated. Like many single members of the church, I have often wondered whether I would be willing to marry someone outside of the temple, and over the past few years I have come to believe that I would be willing to do so. It has been a couple of months since I have seen him or even really talked to him.
And to be fair, he always does contact me to see each other eventually So while some of his behavior makes me question stuff, other times I feel like this is just a phase due to his residency and maybe this is worth hanging on for down the road. If I were you, I would sever the relationship and find someone else. That is a hard truth. Although, I also would question the fact that you're doing all the contacting I just do not text anyone that often or call people. Because I make myself busy, and I think he would to, with other projects and activities. Too bad she couldn't handle the guilt and remorse.
