You just have to decide if the payoff is worth it. The Mormon church is certainly a time consuming church. Like it was mentioned above, see how she deals some of the issues now and if she can't handle it, it might be better to find someone else. Obviously don't make any commitments further in the relationship because you do not want to be married into an insane orthodox LDS family because it will cause alot of troubles. My 2 younger children are entering middle school soon. This blog is very healthy because it has helped me to feel less resentful about all the time I have to spend alone doing homework and being at functions. Welcome to the future. Want to add to the discussion. Include your email address to get a message when this question is answered.
I have had several people tell me that now that they know our family all preconceived notions of the "doctor's wife" and the lifestyle of a doctor have completely changed. Well, the thing is he knows exactly how I feel and he has offered to give it all up. I honestly believe i need more support from him.
What if she absolutely despises sex. It is not easy for a nonmember spouse to understand a three hour worship block plus callings etc. He is coming to church with me and our daughter for the ward Christmas program. Mormonism is a big thing for those who follow the faith, so Sundays and the occasional event depending on how much she does extra might distract her.
Take your date to a club with loud music and an open bar, or an R-rated or violent movie, and the prospects of it going well are daunting. Good luck to you and your family with the rest of fellowship. I would not want my children raised Mormon which she seems intent on. We have been married 2 years and have a 4 month old baby. I can't complain about the first 24yrs. Understand that it's their belief, and make plans for any of the other 6 days instead.