I learned that you have to weigh thes things out--is it someone you care enough about to wait for. She asked me the other night how it's possible for me to be such a good person when I don't believe in god. Interfaith marriage is but one variety of the learning experience. I would probably suggest that you cut your losses now. Fellowship was worse and now that my doc has been an attending for 2 years, it is worse than it has ever been.
As far as as race and the priesthood, Mormons still believe the priesthood ban was divinely inspired. By all means, I encourage you to try having those discussions and to make a mental note of when you would choose to walk away instead. Also, love how you describe how God has our backs and we can actually act on the notion of things hoped for that are not seen instead of the quaint pseudo idea that all things are known in advance, step by step, and lead to mortal and eternal bliss. It helps put my small, first world problems into perspective.
And as many posters stated, it is something that needs to be seriously discussed with your potential partner. First, my dad was a wonderful husband to my mother the greatest mom on earthand a wonderful father to me. I have been married to a doc for 31 years and just found out about an "emotional affair" that went on for 15 years she is a nurse.
The scenario where she refused to watch a possibly 'anti' documentary and wanted to watch church-sanctioned material sounds like a red flag. But his absence in the spiritual side of my life, and that of my mother, was very hard. Do you truly believe in temple marriage as a requirement for Celestial attainment. Where do you find Mormon girls. I know a non-Mormon guy who married a Mormon woman and has kept her beautiful and desirable, by encouraging her religious involvement, even though he avoided Mormonism himself. Their son grew up to become a temple president. Soon you'll feel better, because you're not alone. All I can do is Trust in God. It's winter here and I figured she was layering for warmth. God brought the two of us together, and we are truly in love.