Without going into too much personal detail, I received a very real, strong prompting that I should marry this girl. Eventually I hope each wards get to a point where they know that as a ward family our job is simply to make sure that each person, member or non member knows that when they enter the house of the Lord, they are loved. Her attempts to convert you will get stronger and stronger, if you make it clear to her that you will not under any circumstances convert, she'll bounce. I learned that you have to weigh thes things out--is it someone you care enough about to wait for. Some of the most wonderful lesbian sex I've ever had was with a TBM girl.
Make sure everyone involved is a couple, or at least is paired with someone. He realized his dream of being a specialty surgeon and having a family but leaves the dirty work to me. We'll have to discuss that, now that I actually know some things about some things. Never mind the paycheck because I even earn more than him. I would show her this recent post for example: Her family will also be thinking about this and will talk to you about it when you spend time with them.
To others making this consideration, I would certainly suggest that you converse with your Father in Heaven about this important choice. But I was unusual in that I never really wanted to convert my husband I was worried I'd have to divorce him if he turned true Mormon and he didn't need me to believe way he does. And for mormons, the goal is always a temple marriage and a marriage for the eternities. Totally hated it too. I'm pretty disturbed by the level of dismissiveness seen in many of the comments here. Mormons love to have fun, but they prefer keeping it clean, respectful, and something that everyone can enjoy. This man basically tells you in a simple way within 6 minutes. You will be surrounded by single women, many of whom are probably interested in dating and marrying a Mormon, so take advantage. You have to come second right now.
My husband and I have been together since we were year-olds at university trying to figure out where we stood with the faiths we had grown up in. Because if you can't live and let live, you both need to dive deep into this stuff and figure out what you believe and want in your life. I can accept her, and she's told me she can accept me The challenging part for me now is the idea of putting my kids through the brainwashing. I feel selfish to never be around but this is my dream so much so that I refuse to have children because I dont want my kids to have a workaholic mother who's never there. Then here for a musical explanation of how those who yearn for a rational faith can resolve doubt through symbolical interpretation.
